The Ozzman
Melted by feels
Okay, so my roommate is a traveling engineer for lack of a better term and he's currently in north bumfuck Alberta province until next Wednesday (If you're in Canada, he's at the oil sands up there).
I text him today to make sure he's doing alright and he says he's fine. All is well in the world.
Fast forward to 2 hours later and I get a text:
Him: Could you do me a favor and get two spare keys made to the apartment?
Me: Sure, no problem. A spare one for me?
Him: Three, then. Two for the both of us and one for Jackie so she can do laundry
1) Why can't she do laundry on her own?
2) Seriously?
Me: Okay, I'll get 4 made (one for my parents in case they need to check on something while he and I are not there) but when you get back we're going to talk about this.
What the fuck? How inconsiderate do you have to be to not ask my opinion about this? He and I barely know her (in fact, I barely know him but he's a decent guy and somewhat trustworthy so it's working out so far) so what makes him think I'm going to be okay with someone I barely know having unfettered access to my apartment when there are no locks on the bedroom doors? He is minimalistic and doesn't have many possessions (probably because he travels so much and can't really enjoy them like he wants to) but I have everything I own in this apartment and I'll be fucking goddamned if I give what amounts to a stranger access to all of that.
First it's laundry, then it's something else. How far is he willing to let it escalate? Once something gets stolen? Once I come home from work one day and she's here eating my food and sitting on my furniture without even telling me she's going to drop by?
My roommate went through a nasty divorce about 8 months ago and he's kinda given fuck all about anything since then. This girl is playing mind games with him. I did trust her when I first met her, but now I'm getting a bad vibe from her. She was living with her boyfriend and then he moved back to Tennessee so I don't even know if they are together anymore. I don't want to ask since that's really awkward.
He's looking for satisfaction and she wants to see how far he'll go for her.
Did he not put himself in my shoes? Why did he think it was going to be 'okay' for her to have such free access?
Next Wednesday is going to be loads of fun.
I text him today to make sure he's doing alright and he says he's fine. All is well in the world.
Fast forward to 2 hours later and I get a text:
Him: Could you do me a favor and get two spare keys made to the apartment?
Me: Sure, no problem. A spare one for me?
Him: Three, then. Two for the both of us and one for Jackie so she can do laundry
1) Why can't she do laundry on her own?
2) Seriously?
Me: Okay, I'll get 4 made (one for my parents in case they need to check on something while he and I are not there) but when you get back we're going to talk about this.
What the fuck? How inconsiderate do you have to be to not ask my opinion about this? He and I barely know her (in fact, I barely know him but he's a decent guy and somewhat trustworthy so it's working out so far) so what makes him think I'm going to be okay with someone I barely know having unfettered access to my apartment when there are no locks on the bedroom doors? He is minimalistic and doesn't have many possessions (probably because he travels so much and can't really enjoy them like he wants to) but I have everything I own in this apartment and I'll be fucking goddamned if I give what amounts to a stranger access to all of that.
First it's laundry, then it's something else. How far is he willing to let it escalate? Once something gets stolen? Once I come home from work one day and she's here eating my food and sitting on my furniture without even telling me she's going to drop by?
My roommate went through a nasty divorce about 8 months ago and he's kinda given fuck all about anything since then. This girl is playing mind games with him. I did trust her when I first met her, but now I'm getting a bad vibe from her. She was living with her boyfriend and then he moved back to Tennessee so I don't even know if they are together anymore. I don't want to ask since that's really awkward.
He's looking for satisfaction and she wants to see how far he'll go for her.
Did he not put himself in my shoes? Why did he think it was going to be 'okay' for her to have such free access?
Next Wednesday is going to be loads of fun.