Mikael Åkerfeldt;5783400 said:
I don't know if you're trying to pick a fight, be smart or think you "got me".
I'm not trying to pick a fight, neither being smart... and I don't have this feeling of "I got him". I'm just saying what I feel about this whole situation.
Mikael Åkerfeldt;5783400 said:
Whatever...this forum is about my band and I feel entitled to say basically whatever I want once I think something is wrong, I/we get attacked etc...if that makes me a coward, than so be it.
Great, maybe it really does make you a coward, but that's up to you. The forum is about your band and you're completely right... you can say basically whatever you want, bash whoever you want, criticize anyone... however, seemingly you can't take much criticism.
Statements like
"this forum is about my band",
"don't question my judgement", and
"when somebody picks on his drumming I can't help but feel that that person is a deaf moron who knows nothing about music or drumming" makes you look like that typical child who says: "This ball is mine, mine, mine. You won't play football if you don't follow my rules". Childish... isn't it? Maybe even more childish than the "new breed of idiot Opeth fans" fighting on who's better, Lopez or Axe. By the way, if there's a "
NEW breed of idiot Opeth fans", I must deduce there was already a breed of idiot Opeth fans. Why didn't you slam them as rudely as you did to the "NEW breed"? Maybe because they're VERY smart and their topics and posts aren't childish at all. You're right... a thread like "If you could describe Opeth with 4 colours what would they be?" is VERY MATURE, much more mature than guys discussing about Lopez and Axe. It's so mature that when I saw it posted I felt like I was in a Britney Spears board.
Unfortunately great (I'd say genius) musicians like you don't usually know how to deal with their fans. It seems like the bigger the band gets, the worse it is to musicians like you, because you simply lose control of the whole thing and don't realize you must differentiate your personal relation with your band to the relation the public has towards your band. Open your eyes, take a look around, and you will see that Opeth is not a garage band anymore. You aren't Guns N' Roses either, but you're quite big in your own style. In other words, you are exposed, your band is others' band as well. You control it musically, artistically, but you can't control the comments about it, nor yet the reviewers or the fans. Your music and your art are exposed, they're in the public eye. You were the one who chose this, so deal with it.
There's no big difference between Sebastian Bach/Axl Rose attacking their fans (who weren't being nice to them while they were onstage)... jumping off the stage and punching them in the middle of the crowd in the 80's/90's and you slamming your fans publicly on the Internet. It's just a different era... a new era with a new breed of fans, and a new breed of musicians who don't know how to deal with fame, criticism, and the harsh actions of some fans. You definitely don't need to accept everything, but you probably need to know how to answer to those fans properly, instead of sounding like a dictator or an amateur.
You are an excellent musician, truly incredible. You've created some of the most unique musical legacies of the last 15 years, however, this doesn't mean you know anything else than expressing yourself musically. That's the difference between musicians and TRUE entertainers (although some musicians are entertainers as well). As much as entertainers have a lot to learn with musicians, musicians have a lot to learn with entertainers.