it either grabs you or it doesn't
I fundamentally disagree. Pop depends on catchy hooks. Do you judge jazz based on whether it grabs you or not?
Been on a bit of a female vocal kick today. I'm typically not a big fan in Hard Rock/Metal, but I'm really starting to appreciate them in folky or gothic type stuff. Anna Von Hausswolff, Lisa Gerrard (Dead Can Dance), Chelsea Wolfe, Faun, and: