Can't sleep, philosophizing and giving Dexter another shot. There's a scene where Doakes finally gets off his back because he sees him at an Addicts Anonymous meeting - i.e. Dexter is human, flawed, no longer a threat.
I was thinking how revealing vulnerabilities is such a useful tool for disarming people... or is it shared humanity that's disarming? After all, Doakes was sympathetic because their workplace is plenty stressful and plenty of cops had similar issues.
Hard to say. Displaying flaws shows you're not a threat, but displaying empathy, or garnering genuine sympathy, shows you're on the same team. Which do you think is more effective if one wanted to, idk, win friends and influence people?