If you will allow me- i'd like to fill you guys in on a little more of the situation.
This situation occurred when Whole Lotta Love came on another friends mix cd they had in the cd player. She is a Phd student- not brilliant- but a very very hard worker( one of those girls that does school work all day long- lives for school work). She said I hate Led Zeppelin, they are not my kind of music- I was a little shocked- but I asked her why she didnt like them- and I was met with they produce angry over the top music- which is not her cp of tea. I tried to explain how talented they were- and what good songs they wrote( that werent ripped off- as Zep loved to do), and how it really didnt matter then if they were angry or sent a violent message- because of their talent. She further dug her feet in the sand- and stated she like things she can sing along to, things that uplift her, and the human spirit. She was strangely supported by a number of other students during the conversation. She also stated she hates her husbands music when he plays punk rock. She is quite an idealistic liberal( she is the nicest girl one could meet) -as are all the students that supported her- vegetarian- going to save the world attitude. So, this is where this all comes from.
After reflecting, I was struck by the fact that I started listening to metal- becuase of anger. Any teenager is beset with anger- why the hell would i want to listen to happy music, or pop music- none of it dealt with my adolescent anger.
I also have found, that i need something more than metal musically to satisfy my inner needs. At present, im 24, i no longer listen to only metal. I now listen to world music, ambient, electronic, blues, rock, modern classical, jazz- asd much as I do metal. I need the serenity of ambient music- as much as i need the anger of metal. So, this is the situation I find myself in. I love metal deeply, but I acknowledge that metal isnt everything to me musically- it isnt the alpha and omega of music.