In response to some posts :
(Obviously this bit is more directed at Headcrusher) It's not about getting girls at all to me. I used to get girls when I wore super baggy jeans, metal shirts, super old faded flannelette with wholes in the sleeves. Not good relationship material mind you (except for one perhaps) but good looking girls nonetheless. I drew them in with my sense of humor and a decent level of confidence.
However, I think if you dress better you have way more chance with quality women.
(a bit more general, relating to more posts)
I tend to just dress "normal" because I just feel it's more appropriate to dress that way. I don't have piercings or tattoos either, so I tend to look pretty conservative.
I used to not give a shit when I was younger, but as I've gotten older I feel it's quite important.
I know that if I were in a good pub in a good suburb/in the city, I have expectations that people are doing to make the effort to look decent.
If I see a guy or girl dressed like they are straight out of an 80s metal band, I just can't take them seriously. It's just not an appropriate setting to dress that way.
Even worse when I see those guys that look like they have time warped from the 1970s punk scene with the mohawks and stuff. Just looks absolutely ridiculous and IMO is just no way an acceptable way to look and dress in today's society. I guess you get a free pass if you play in a band with that theme, but otherwise a 1970s punk mohawk is just incredibly silly and looks absolutely awful.
Sure, dressing metal is great if you're on a stage playing metal or at a metal gig, because it suits the environment, but I don't think it's too much to ask of people to get some decent clothes that are appropriate for when they go somewhere where people are going to be dressed nicely for the most part, like a quality restaurant, pub (well I suppose "bar", we call them pubs here) etc.