Not-so-good-and-old "How do you feel" thread

[Child of Time]

Tebus: Naughty situation you've got there.

I don't fully understand these feelings you, Tebus and rahvin, have when it comes to approaching someone you're interested in. You, Tebus, you're saying that you feel disrespectful towards a girl if you're approaching her because of lust. But why? Lust in itself doesn't mean disrespect, or am I wrong here? I think you can approach a girl and still show very much respect for her as a person.

What's hindering me from approaching girls is mostly a troubling disease I have: tongue-tiedness. The more I like the girl, the more difficult it is for me to say something at all. The only thing that can make me feel more confident is if I see that she likes me more than I like her, which is a little psychopatic.

 

[Wolfman Von Jones]

Well acions speak louder than words, so all you have to do is show her what your disease can really do *nudge, nudge*.

I feel.....very bad for a good friend .

Nick

 

[Siren]

NF: I'm not really feeling much at the moment, except tiredness. I've been wondering about the love issue myself recently, and i came to no specific conclusion. Maybe love doesn't exist at all.

 

[fireangel]

Siren: what does your signature say?

 

[Siren]

@fire: just some stupid psycho stuff about patience and how it's linked to maturity.

 

[Arch]

NF: Good. 2 more class meetings for this week and my weekend starts. Woohoo!

 

[hyena]

@tebus and carl: you see, that's exactly one of the points that i've been debating with approx one thousand people lately.

i have this feeling that some people regard immediate lust as being a normal part of interest towards another person, while other people find it demeaning. i think it has something to do with the mechanics of lust - i found out that actually the people towards whom i have a strong sexual impulse as a first impression are people i somehow demean. before feeling lust, that is, not after. if all i think about while talking to somebody is sex, probably i don't give a shit as to what they're saying, and am not inclined to trust them, more to use them (although i never actually do because it's evil). and if i am in that situation, i'm sort of ruling out from the beginning the idea that i could talk to them in some meaningful way.

of course, this is an extremization of how the things really work, but on the other hand when i feel love towards someone i have more a need for proximity, also expressed by means of sex, than a desire to get pleasure out of their body.

i also reckon this is very subjective and would like to hear your opinions.

 

[fireangel]

@fire: just some stupid psycho stuff about patience and how it's linked to maturity.

Hm. I don´t see a link in this

 

[hyena]

oh, i do, i do, i do....

 

[rahvin]

oh, i do, i do, i do....

*rotfl*
thank you for reminding me at least twice a day why you're my best friend since when we were kids.


@fireangel: i'll send you a translation if you want, no worries.

 

[hyena]

you're welcome, honey. i just had to.

nf: silly. hello friday, bring us havoc.

 

[fireangel]

Well, I only know at the moment those two keywords, of maturity and patience, and I had not experienced that they are connected in a very specific way. I am way more patient than I am mature
Or you could say that patience reduces with maturity, because you realize how short life is

 

[rahvin]

ok, now the "hello friday" thing makes me laugh too. i hope i'm not contagious.

 

[hyena]

@fireangel: well, you see, that's the catch. we don't know whose patience and whose maturity are referenced in the quote. try falling for a 39 year old and you'll get the general idea, plus you'll become really apt at waiting. actually you'll play the waiter to his cook.

@rahve: i've also posted more funny stuff on the pic thread, i believe. i'm having this big 11.45pm-0.15am laughing phase these days, and you know it all started with the war cry directed at all ex-lovers of the world: micicici, vaffanculo!

 

[fireangel]

NF: I don´t understand myself

 

[rahvin]

NF: I don´t understand myself

no one does, honey. most of us manage to get to the end of the day without hurting themselves just because it's really not cool. let alone understanding much about the inner self. so get to bed and get to sleep, fireangel: it's what we're trying to do too.

 

[MagSec4]

I'm very happy about having downloaded Mozilla Firefox and sending Microsoft Internet Explorer to eat shit!
: D

Everybody, download Firefox!! >(

 

[rahvin]

everybody tucked up in bed?

at 01:10am cet, i feel like i should say goodnight to all the europeans. hope you stand the night and live to post again tomorrow. maybe some horrible shit you're facing in your dreams will be more bearable if you talk about it. that's it.

i've had my fun and now it's time to serve your conscience overseas
(r.e.m. - orange crush)

 

[DeepInMisery]

I cant sleep.. (probably because i'm listening to grindcore at 01:15 local time )

äsch, who cares about tomorrow!

 

[Steve]

I have a headache and a paper due tomorrow....
I think I'm going to ask my teacher for an extension on it... until monday...
fuck, why do I have to have a horrible headache?
and why does my mom think the only time it's OK to ask me about religion is when I'm half asleep and have a migraine, then tell me I'm wrong because I don't want to talk?