to answer several questions...I am a woman.
I'm getting divorced, but there isn't drama at the moment. We were friends for 9 years, involved for 7, married for 3 of those years and now it's over by my choosing. Sometimes you try and try, but it does not work.
There's no bitterness...just the fact of what "is" and what is, is that I am getting divorced next year and what I was doing was writing lists and getting organized.
I'm not taking any of his shit, his money, his house, nothing. I'm just a girl who's moving on with her life and relatively happy about it. That's it. *shrugs*