Warning: Emo thread (or not)
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lizard
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Reign in Acai
Of Elephant and Man
Thanatopsis123
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Conspicuously Absent
Linguistically Confused
*shakes head incredulously*
You know, I had a vague feeling when I started this thread that it was gonna rear up and bite me on the ass, but then I though *nah* and went ahead. Looks like I have still to learn Erik's lessons myself.
You know, I had a vague feeling when I started this thread that it was gonna rear up and bite me on the ass, but then I though *nah* and went ahead. Looks like I have still to learn Erik's lessons myself.
Erik
New Metal Member
my lessons
lol
i've learned some very important lessons about real-life consequences of what you say on the internet the last month or so
i'm a little bit more careful and care crewy about what i say nowadays
lol
i've learned some very important lessons about real-life consequences of what you say on the internet the last month or so
i'm a little bit more careful and care crewy about what i say nowadays
lizard
Member
sometimes those premonitions are spot on, aren't they 
somehow, somewhere, a druid is burning a small wax Dill the Devil inside a wicker basket
somehow, somewhere, a druid is burning a small wax Dill the Devil inside a wicker basket
Conspicuously Absent said:
does it really make him seem nice and caring? give me a guy perspective because if I recall he said, 'I'm starting to question why I went out with her at all' I know that ones one of the days when he was working out his own mind but it just seems a bit harsh to me...
and then less than two days after being single says 'I got together with a hot blonde last night.'
hmmm, caring/nice?! opinions please!
lizard
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Conspicuously Absent
Linguistically Confused
Ok, i'm just gonna throw in a few random quotes here to help defend him. you can perceive them anyway you like. I take them as a nice/caring guy moving on with his life, but you can take them as a heartless asshole if you choose to:
first off to counter your quote:
" no reflection on her, just questioning my own motivations. I'm not suffering from remorse, in fact I don't feel like I'm suffering at all - that's what's worrying me."
Now to defend my PoV:
" I don't want to be cruel, but I really think the relationship's done."
Re the h0t blonde:
" Do I suck or rule? I'm not sure."
" I don't feel bad for hooking up with the other girl, but I hate myself for hurting the ex. Even though the relationship was done, I still care about the girl. God, I'm a fucking horrible person... "
" I don't like making enemies, but I do take other people's feelings into consideration so much in my everyday life that I rarely end up doing what I actually want to do. Last night, I did. And I'm paying for it. "
sounds like you're reading what you want to hear.
some more quotes:
" I've managed to stay very good friends with all of my exes bar one, and I'd like to stay on good terms with this one."
Anyway, thats my official stance as carecrew commander. You're reading only half of what he says, or are just choosing to ignore the end portion. Sure, it sucks he's moving on so fast, but if you read what he posted, the relationship started to die a long time ago, so he basically got over you a little bit at a time long ago, whether you did or not is another story, but you shouldn't blame him for being ready to continue with his life without you so quickly, because for him, you started leaving him so long ago, his mind was ready for this and it wasn't much of a shock.
edit: in reality what i'm saying is: he's moved on, you haven't. But he still is trying to care for your feelings, the problem is, you haven't moved on and your feelings are excessively frail right now, plus you hate the thought of him moving on. But in all of his posts, he expresses concern for you, a desire not to hurt your feelings (except he's decided to think of himself first for once), and overall regret at not being able to maintain a friendship with you like his other exes.
first off to counter your quote:
" no reflection on her, just questioning my own motivations. I'm not suffering from remorse, in fact I don't feel like I'm suffering at all - that's what's worrying me."
Now to defend my PoV:
" I don't want to be cruel, but I really think the relationship's done."
Re the h0t blonde:
" Do I suck or rule? I'm not sure."
" I don't feel bad for hooking up with the other girl, but I hate myself for hurting the ex. Even though the relationship was done, I still care about the girl. God, I'm a fucking horrible person... "
" I don't like making enemies, but I do take other people's feelings into consideration so much in my everyday life that I rarely end up doing what I actually want to do. Last night, I did. And I'm paying for it. "
sounds like you're reading what you want to hear.
some more quotes:
" I've managed to stay very good friends with all of my exes bar one, and I'd like to stay on good terms with this one."
Anyway, thats my official stance as carecrew commander. You're reading only half of what he says, or are just choosing to ignore the end portion. Sure, it sucks he's moving on so fast, but if you read what he posted, the relationship started to die a long time ago, so he basically got over you a little bit at a time long ago, whether you did or not is another story, but you shouldn't blame him for being ready to continue with his life without you so quickly, because for him, you started leaving him so long ago, his mind was ready for this and it wasn't much of a shock.
edit: in reality what i'm saying is: he's moved on, you haven't. But he still is trying to care for your feelings, the problem is, you haven't moved on and your feelings are excessively frail right now, plus you hate the thought of him moving on. But in all of his posts, he expresses concern for you, a desire not to hurt your feelings (except he's decided to think of himself first for once), and overall regret at not being able to maintain a friendship with you like his other exes.
lizard
Member
I think in this sort of situation, it's normal to see things primarily from your own perspective and maybe not so much the whole picture. I'm sure I would be like, GRRRRR RRRRRR GRRRRRR GRRRRRRRR and furtherGRRRRRRRRRConspicuously Absent said:
as a dispassionate observer, I think he actually showed alot of mixed emotions
as the Care Crue purser, this is my opinion
Reign in Acai
Of Elephant and Man
lizard
Member
so how come "Susperia" gets roasted for being all emo and Dill doesn't....it's like the reverse of the Care Crue imbroglio
Conspicuously Absent
Linguistically Confused
lizard said:I think in this sort of situation, it's normal to see things primarily from your own perspective and maybe not so much the whole picture. I'm sure I would be like, GRRRRR RRRRRR GRRRRRR GRRRRRRRR and furtherGRRRRRRRRR
as a dispassionate observer, I think he actually showed alot of mixed emotions
as the Care Crue purser, this is my opinion
yeah, that is pretty true, it would be rather hard to take a neutral viewpoint on this for her, or for him. And yes, mixed emotions, but he still has tried to spare her some pain, but *shrug*
whatever.
as for susperia... no clue
I guess she's hated for not being here long enough to earn to be emo? or because she's from GMD?
Erik
New Metal Member
EVANGELIST YOU CLAIM GOD SPEAKS THROUGH YOU
YOUR RESTLESS MIND FULL OF LIES BRINGS POPULARITY
SAVE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOUR RESTLESS MIND FULL OF LIES BRINGS POPULARITY
SAVE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Conspicuously Absent
Linguistically Confused
and one more thing: at no point in this thread has he said ANYTHING bad about you jenni. So why are you trying to attack him?
any reason beyond lashing out because you're hurt he's ready to move on?
any reason beyond lashing out because you're hurt he's ready to move on?
Erik
New Metal Member
IN YOUR MIND'S EYE COULD YOU
TRULY BELIEVE?
THAT BY GIVING YOU COULD SAVE YOUR SOUL
COULD YOU BE SO NAIVE?
TRULY BELIEVE?
THAT BY GIVING YOU COULD SAVE YOUR SOUL
COULD YOU BE SO NAIVE?
lizard
Member
well it's true that some can bear up under the initial "Greetings" of the RC kru, and some can't...
I guess the only truism is that when emotions are involved, rationality frequently goes absent, so you can't always expect things to make perfect sense. I mean, we could all die in a fiery train wreck without having smelled that daisy we passed this morning, or without taking a deep breath of the still morning air after a rainshower [/erik]
I guess the only truism is that when emotions are involved, rationality frequently goes absent, so you can't always expect things to make perfect sense. I mean, we could all die in a fiery train wreck without having smelled that daisy we passed this morning, or without taking a deep breath of the still morning air after a rainshower [/erik]
