Excuse the random rant which is about to follow:
I don't understand girls not wanting to sleep with guys the first night they meet as a matter of principle. Obviously there may be many reasons for not doing it with a particular person at a particular time, and I'm not the pushy type but this 'blanket rule' thing seems to be turning up a lot lately and I find it annoyingly illogical. One girl said to me recently, "I really want you and I'm really horny but I don't sleep with guys on the first night".
Then last night I picked up a girl and went back to her place, then when we're in the middle of fooling around on her bed she says "I hope I'm not leading you on, I'm not going to have sex with you tonight - I don't do that with someone I've only just met". "Well, of course you're leading me on", I thought, but didn't push the issue, just went to sleep. Only then I wake up to find her rubbing my dick, and we end up doing pretty much everything except sex. I'm not complaining because I had a good time but what the hell??
It's not like these chicks are religious. I think it's just a case of being socially programmed to feel guilt and shame about enjoying a night of random sex. Is this an Australian thing? Aussie chicks are quite conservative on the whole.