I was going to have to go to two wakes but they are at around the same time and one is so deep in Brooklyn no train goes there. So, I actually had to choose which one to go to and I had to pick my best friend's grandmother since I grew up with her. The other one is for a former coworker. Ironically I worked with him at a salad restaurant and then he worked for the community based organization that did after school programs for my old school I taught in. Suicide. Younger than me, too. Reading his best friend's posts on Facebook brings legit tears to my eyes. I'm gonna hug my best friend when I see her today.