i feel bubu. for a large part of the day i've been reading a book about relationship behavior (@ the italians, willy pasini, "i nuovi comportamenti amorosi", quite good if you've ever gone out with a weird individual and want to understand what is going on behind his/her eyes). i find that small escapades into bisexuality, group sex, and also habitual poligamy are considered the norm in this day and age, as in: psychoterapists and opinion-makers maintain that it is okay as long as it's not a compulsion. now, i'm done with the guy, but it makes me shiver deep inside to think that these remains of a troubled teenager's view of the world are something that could well go on into an adult's life, without individuals or society at large feeling that this is, if not evil, stupid and destructive. what happened to the ole boy-girl thing? awww.
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