The "What Are You Doing This Moment" Thread

No, no H. It's an idea, but I don't need that or I'd end up offing myself. I'm at my mom's right now. I don't know when I can see my son. This is just too much. I'm 21 and shouldn't have these issues... I don't have to be in a committed relationship, ya know? I was loving and faithful for over 2 years, and that's not enough? Then stab me in the back on top of it all? I thought things were well and that she and I would be together forever, as dumb as it is to ever believe that. Saying "I love you" seems to only lead to hurt. And jail. I'd rather just be alone.

I appreciate the :( 's though. It doesn't help, but still...

EDIT: Sevag, you don't get to say that. Now I feel like a whiny bitch.
 
What the christ. Was there some specific recent issue that caused her to flip out, or do you think she'd been hating the relationship for a long time and finally just decided on a way to hit the eject button?

I hope you're able to work out some kind of agreement to see your son dude. I also hope you don't end up stuck in the kind of bullshit some ex-couples do where the only way they agree to anything is in court, and it just wastes thousands of bucks in lawyer/court costs.

Either way though, it's going to really suck for your son if you aren't able to get back together with her and he has to live with only one parent while being caught in the middle of all that tension. The whole ordeal's going to take the biggest toll by far on him, and it's really sad that your ex doesn't seem to care about that.
 
sevag00's cancer isn't like some sort of trump card, that's still a really shitty situation you're in. I could tell you what I've told you many times before, but things look bleak this time around. I'm curious as to why she did this.
 
There's only 2 reasons. She wanted it to end or she tried to make me look like the bad guy. She got drunk and started hitting and such, so I had my mom pick up our son. With everyone mad at her, she wanted to retaliate. That's my guess. Either way, this hurts, and it will make my son's life so god damn hard...I don't want him to live without both parents. I wanted this to work. God damn it.
 
Being separated is not the end of the world for a child, especially for one as young as your son. The younger it occurs, the more normal it seems and the easier it is to accept. I'm not saying that it's preferable in any way, but it's also not as bad as I'm sure it must seem right now. Assuming that things work out where there is some kind of shared custody, that is. Not that I can really tell from one picture, but as long as your son has a good demeanor, it's likely that he can adapt with minimal issues.
 
Hopefully. Logically, it's not the end of the world. But emotionally...man, it sure feels like it. It's my time to get my emo on, I guess. Hopefully I'll see my son soon, though. I don't think she and I will ever get back together, which is upsetting to say the least.
 
Yeah, it'd be too tempting. This sort of heartache and sorrow mixed with that is a 99% sure shot to suicide. Death sounds nice now, but later on I will be glad not to be dead. I lost the woman I love and won't really heal from that, but I at least have my son. That's still more than enough to keep me going and it always will be. I wish I could see him right now, though.
 
divine_torture said:
Yeah, it'd be too tempting. This sort of heartache and sorrow mixed with that is a 99% sure shot to suicide. Death sounds nice now, but later on I will be glad not to be dead. I lost the woman I love and won't really heal from that, but I at least have my son. That's still more than enough to keep me going and it always will be. I wish I could see him right now, though.
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cook-ta said:
I found out that I'm getting laid off today. I'm in a pretty shitty mood atm and am enjoying my last beer that I'll be able to afford until I get a new job.
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Hope things will work out for both of you.
 
Shit d_t that sounds like a horrid situation. What you said sounds pretty correct though (about her wanting to retaliate and so on). Just try to get your hopes up and do what you can.

Same with you too cook-ta, hopefully you can find a decent job sometime soon. What horrible timing to get laid off.
 
Damn Apoth, I wish there was something I could say to help. Just remember that you've got me along with everyone else on Morbid Realm (considering you practically run the show there :p )behind you.
 
divine_torture said:
No, no H. It's an idea, but I don't need that or I'd end up offing myself. I'm at my mom's right now. I don't know when I can see my son. This is just too much. I'm 21 and shouldn't have these issues... I don't have to be in a committed relationship, ya know? I was loving and faithful for over 2 years, and that's not enough? Then stab me in the back on top of it all? I thought things were well and that she and I would be together forever, as dumb as it is to ever believe that. Saying "I love you" seems to only lead to hurt. And jail. I'd rather just be alone.

I appreciate the :( 's though. It doesn't help, but still...

EDIT: Sevag, you don't get to say that. Now I feel like a whiny bitch.
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Good on you for not turning to smack again. Just remember that even though it may seem really shitty now, life goes on.

Don't EVER let a woman make you who you are. If you are worried about custody of your kid, there are legal precautions you can take to gain it.

(Sexist comment not intended.)
 
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