To be honest, I don't think people are giving you shit, I think people sincerely don't like you. You do nothing but post boring anecdotes that nobody cares about, and you complain a lot. All this while barely posting or knowing anything about music. You offer very little to this particular forum, and you get too offended when somebody calls you out on something.
You also seem real eager to try and force your way into the community and to try to become "one of the UM boys". You have the same mentality as a kid who dresses in all black clothing from Hot Topic one week after listing to a few Slipknot singles on youtube for the first time.
This forum really isn't for you in my opinion. You need to post somewhere where there's more people, and more going on, as you evidently like to talk a lot. I'm not trying to get you to leave as much as I'm trying to tell you that you'll probably enjoy some place else better.